Pride is the failure Scripture warns men about most consistently, and it is rarely loud. It shows up as defensiveness, as needing the last word, as an unwillingness to be corrected. Humility is not low self-regard—it is accurate self-regard held loosely.
Proverbs 16:18
Pride runs ahead of the fall—it is the warning sign, not the wreckage.
Christ's descent is the pattern—status set down on purpose, for someone else's good.
PHP.2.3-8
3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;