Scripture does not rush men through hard seasons or ask them to pretend. It says God is near the brokenhearted, that a righteous man falls and gets up repeatedly, and that grace shows up specifically at the point where your own strength runs out.
Psalm 34:18
God is close to the brokenhearted—nearness is the promise, not immediate rescue.
Grace is sufficient and power lands in weakness—Paul stopped asking for the thorn to go.
2CO.12.9-10
9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
Suffering, perseverance, character, hope—a chain that does not skip a link.
ROM.5.3-5
3 Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.